The More Control A Person Has Over Their Emotions...

"The More Control A Person Has Over Their Emotions, The More Success They Will Have." [at this stage of human evolution, when our species is still heavily emotionally constipated.]

If someone else is being more successful than you, just know that it's because they control their emotions better than you do.

THIS DOES NOT MEAN SUPPRESSION...exactly.

More accurately, they know how to play with their emotions.
They know when to feel deeply, and when to muffle their feelings to a whisper.
Choking feelings off is never good, but it's possible to negotiate with them, to encourage them to be quiet while one conducts their affairs wearing their poker face, or Jungian Mask.

Is it healthy?
God no.
But, if you express emotions too freely : you will be hurt (until humanity matures).

My advice?
Find your way to control your emotions,
guide your emotions,
negotiate with your emotions.

Your poor emotions want desperately to be freely expressed, but, just like in any Repressive Regime,
Cries for Freedom will be Brutally Suppressed.
You don't deserve to suffer.
I don't deserve to suffer.

Keep listening to your feelings.
Plan for the day they can be freely expressed.
Dictatorship in its various manifestations is only a part of humanity's evolution.
The day is coming very soon when we will be a mature enough species to allow everyone to truly just be themselves.

You can do it.
I believe in you.
I believe in me.

And...hey.
This is just a dream anyways, and really no big deal. ^_^