Before One Can Strengthen Others...

"Before One Can Strengthen Others,
One Must Become Strong Oneself."

It is admirable and noble that one of the highest goods of our society is helping one another to be healthy and happy.

That said, the goal is unsustainable if a person desirous of aiding others is not already strong themselves.
In such situations, the person rendering aid is succeeding only in draining their own reserves of energy.

It is natural that human beings want to help one another.

There is no need for this behavior to be encouraged, it comes naturally from us.
We are very essentially a gregarious, social animal where assisting each other is as natural as breathing.

Our next step, is to absolutely, 100% insure that the members of our species are strong.
Every single person is raised to be strong and confident in themselves.

This is very easy to do.
Simply encourage a person to do things for themselves and let them know that whenever they need help, they merely have to ask and it will be given gladly.
That's it.